Sunday morning may be early for intercourse speak. Nevertheless, the Self-Assist Smut Membership, gathered on the Black Cat Fables bookstore in Monrovia, doesn’t assume so. Earlier than midday, the group has already deliberated on all kinds of bed room actions that may make one blush.
“A man with a mattress on the ground has a whole lot of nerve,” says Cherisse Yanit-Nadal, one of many e book membership members, whereas discussing the characters of “Late Bloomer” by Mazey Eddings.
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The e book membership usually meets to debate romance novels in all their sticky, sweaty, throbbing passions. The full of life group discusses romantic — usually very horny — fiction to spark nuanced conversations about self-discovery. Caitlin Harrison, a wedding and household therapist, based the membership after noticing the rise of romantic fiction on BookTok– a big and boisterous nook of TikTok that shares opinions and proposals of books — and contemplating its therapeutic worth.
“As a therapist who has a focus in sex therapy, I think it’s really unique and helpful that we can see character arcs really well through sex,” says Harrison. “It allows for very rich, honest conversations about what comes up for us.”
Caitlin Harrison smiles as Ella Rodriguez shares with the group.
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Romance novels on show at Black Cat Fables in Monrovia.
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It’s price noting that smut and romance novels have soared in recognition lately, changing into the highest-grossing fiction style lately. Stigmas round “chick-lit” have light as TikTok has gathered over 1 million posts beneath the hashtag SmutTok. The wildy standard romance and fantasy collection “A Court of Thorns and Roses” is a #1 New York Occasions bestseller, promoting thousands and thousands of copies. On Goodreads, the romance novel “Onyx Storm” dominated studying lists in 2025.
At one level through the e book meetup, youngsters wandered via the bookstore, prompting the membership to undertake playfully coded, child-friendly language about pubic-hair grooming.
“She had let the weeds grow,” Yanit-Nadal stated of a personality in “Late Bloomer.” “You can grow the garden however you want to grow the garden.”
Open since October 2024, Black Cat Fables is a neighborhood bookstore and occasion area. Nicole Fabry opened it with two shut associates. “We all met working for a public library, so it was kind of meant to be an extension of a public library,” Fabry stated. “We definitely wanted it to be community-focused and to become more of a third space for people.” Whereas libraries supply programming for kids and seniors, Fabry seen a niche in literary occasions for folks ages 20 to 50 and sought to fill it.
Alexa Palomo, left, and Ashley Bagwell chat after the Self-Assist Smut Membership.
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The bookstore now hosts a wide range of community-minded occasions, together with Harrison’s membership.
“She leads a group discussion around the importance of pleasure, how self-care and community care are linked, and why it’s important to discuss sex and pleasure and intimacy with others in a safe space,” Fabry stated. “There’s a lot of giggling in the corner, which is always fun. They have a really good time.”
Through the hour, dialog glided seamlessly between matters just like the late-bloomer-to-kink pipeline, the virtues of being egocentric in mattress and a spate of different horny encounters. But the group additionally ventured into deeper territory — boundaries, psychological well being, physique picture and neighborhood.
“There are a lot of oppressive systems right now, and it actually is all the more reason to engage with smut, pleasure, joy, so that we can build a discipline of hope,” Harrison stated.
Having begun her personal follow in April, Harrison facilities pleasure and want in her work. She has noticed that a lot of her sufferers — overachieving, bold girls — battle to embrace pleasure. “I work with a lot of high-power, girl-boss types, eldest daughters who are running themselves into the ground, struggling with perfectionism. So my focus is on helping folks recover from perfectionism,” she stated.
Rather than productiveness hacks and self-help podcasts, she provides totally different recommendation. “Pick up some smut and engage with a different part of yourself so that you can get back into your body and get out of your head,” she stated.
After discovering her native bookstore, Harrison approached the proprietor about internet hosting a Self-Assist Smut Membership that may put the rules of her work into follow.
“Reading is an isolated activity,” she stated. “Being able to meet in real life, connect in a community space, makes this even more juicy and important.”
Ella Rodriguez covers her mouth and laughs as she participates in a bunch dialogue. She says, “I don’t want just to yearn. I also want the reward of pleasure, sex or romance.”
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One membership member, Ella Rodriguez, was touring via Europe when she noticed Black Cat Fables’ Instagram publish in regards to the group. “As soon as I get back home, I’m going straight there. I literally landed and then came here a week later,” she stated.
Rodriguez stated she admires Harrison’s method, which ends up in open-ended discussions. “I loved how Caitlin asks people about our experiences and how that reflects in our own internal world, and how we think of our sexuality and our self-esteem.”
Discussing the intercourse lives of fictional characters invitations deeper reflection on readers’ personal wishes. Rodriguez elaborated on the strain between craving and payoff. “I don’t want just to yearn. I also want the reward of pleasure, sex or romance,” she stated.
Ashley Bagwell — one other licensed therapist who attends the membership — commented on the novelty of a smut-focused group.
“I had also been getting into smutty books, and it just felt like divine timing,” Bagwell stated. “There aren’t smutty book clubs really anywhere. You can find a book club anywhere, but a smutty one, specifically? Not really. I was really excited about that, and tying in the mental health piece was also something I’m interested in.”
Licensed marriage and household therapist Caitlin Harrison leads the Self-Assist Smut Membership.
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Harrison hopes ongoing conversations about romantic fiction will make it simpler for ladies to really feel empowered of their intercourse lives.“I love the BookTok of it all,” says Harrison. “I think that there’s continually more and more breaking down of taboo around being able to talk about what is exciting and pleasurable.”
On the finish of the assembly, Harrison closed with a brand new motto: “2026? More like 2020-sex!” The ladies started excitedly pitching e book titles to match the theme.
Connors is a author residing in Los Angeles. She hosts the literary studying “Unreliable Narrators” at Nico’s Wine each month.
