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Present Do not Inform
By Curtis SittenfeldRandom Home: 320 pages, $28If you purchase books linked on our website, The Occasions could earn a fee from Bookshop.org, whose charges assist unbiased bookstores.
Bestselling “Prep” and “Romantic Comedy” writer Curtis Sittenfeld dwells within the comically awkward. In her completely diverting assortment of 12 quick tales, “Show Don’t Tell,” she contemplates youthful insecurity and past love; the quandary of privilege; the satisfactions of friendship; the disappointments of marriage; and the perils of writerly ambition. Her protagonists are principally girls coming into their very own or dealing with down center age with each a eager sense of the sardonic and a deep reservoir of self-compassion. They’ll giggle at life’s absurdities and challenges — to not point out their very own quirks and failures — whilst they obsess over them. Sittenfeld’s worldview is extra utopian than dystopian; Jane Austen-like, she treats her characters with humanity, even when their actions are cringe-inducing.
Take Jill, the protagonist of “White Women LOL.” She’s been branded a Karen on social media for confronting 5 Black restaurant patrons over their presence in an space designated for her good friend Amy’s celebration. Mentioning that there’s a non-public occasion happening, Jill suggests they take their drinks and transfer elsewhere. “Do you feel unsafe? Are you going to call the cops?” considered one of them retorts. Realizing too late that her interference is studying as racist, she makes an attempt to clean issues over. “This isn’t political,” she protests, which solely heightens the stress. The change is captured on a visitor’s iPhone and goes viral, after which Jill finds herself watching and rewatching the video, reflecting that “she was trying harder than usual, harder than she would have done with a group of white people, to seem friendly and diplomatic.” Meantime, pals cease responding to her texts, and she or he is suspended from her company job pending an HR investigation. To repent, she goes to excessive measures to find her Black neighbor’s lacking Shih Tzu.
That is tough territory, and Sittenfeld handles it with nuance and aplomb. Jill is at first in disbelief that anybody — particularly these near her — would possibly misread her so egregiously. However pondering again on previous occasions, she wonders if there haven’t been occasions when she’s acted out of unacknowledged prejudice and entitlement — a theme that recurs in a number of of the opposite tales on this beautiful assortment, the writer’s second.
The title story, “Show Don’t Tell,” which initially ran within the New Yorker in 2017, is about amid the crucible of a graduate college writing program. Sittenfeld, who earned her grasp of wonderful arts in 2001 from the Iowa Writers’ Workshop, aptly captures the sense of promise that permeates, in addition to the anxieties that pressure friendships and egos, in such settings. She’s additionally keenly conscious that by way of who will finally achieve getting printed, “luck falls unevenly.”
Whereas ready to seek out out who will obtain a coveted fellowship, Ruthie hangs out with classmate Bhadveer, a misogynist within the making. He is aware of he’s already gotten one of many spots, however Ruthie continues to be on tenterhooks. They take turns guessing who else will get the nod. Ruthie speculates that their colleague Aisha is the most definitely candidate, however Bhadveer disagrees: “Great literature has never been produced by a beautiful woman,” he pontificates. When Ruthie denounces the assertion as ridiculous, he doubles down: “There tends to be an inverse relationship between how hot a woman is and how good a writer.” “That’s literally the dumbest idea I’ve ever heard,” says Ruthie. However Bhadveer presses ahead: “It’s because you need to be hungry to be a great writer, and beautiful women aren’t hungry.”
A few years later, after Bhadveer and Ruthie have change into well-known authors, they run into one another on e-book tour. Bhadveer is perceived as being extra “literary,” on monitor to win a Pulitzer. Ruthie has had extra bestsellers, however “my novels are considered ‘women’s fiction.’” This inequity could needle her, however Ruthie is acutely conscious that whereas she is gifted, she’s additionally been lucky. Bhadveer has no such humility. His success hasn’t made him any much less beneficiant, and now he can’t assist himself from letting Ruthie know he hasn’t learn considered one of her seven novels. He additionally derides their former classmates with gusto: ”It’s humorous that nobody aside from us is profitable, isn’t it?”
Sittenfeld, who edited the 2020 quantity of “The Best American Short Stories,” right here saves her finest for final. “Lost But Not Forgotten” revisits Lee Fiora, a personality who first appeared in “Prep.” It’s been a long time since Lee graduated from Ault, and she or he finds herself again on the fancy Massachusetts boarding college for her thirtieth reunion. She’s now single and a founding father of a distinguished nonprofit that helps the incarcerated. Having gone to Ault on scholarship, Lee recollects that “I always felt I was implicitly apologizing for not being sufficiently rich and preppy and privileged.” The irony is she now acknowledges that though she typically felt like an outsider at Ault, her attendance on the college made her an automated insider: “In all the years since I graduated, I’ve been reckoning with just how rich, preppy, and privileged I am.”
On the reunion, she bonds with Jeff, a pupil she barely observed again then. She finds herself opening as much as him — and to her longtime good friend, Dede — in methods she by no means would have when she was youthful. “The single biggest difference between my teenage self and my middle-aged self,” she displays, “is that I’d once been roiling with thoughts and opinions and yearnings that I suspected were strange or shameful or simply inexpressible, and therefore didn’t express them. As I got older, it wasn’t the thoughts and opinions that went away; only over time, their suppression.”
A radiant contentment pervades these tales. They’re retrospective however don’t rue the passage of time. This can be a author who’s snug in her pores and skin. Sittenfeld is a pointy observer of social mores and an astute choose of character, however she’s by no means merciless — she’s the other of a misanthrope. As Ruthie confides to a visiting author: “Some people are annoying. But even the annoying ones — they’re usually annoying in interesting ways.”
Haber is a author, editor and publishing strategist. She was director of Oprah’s E book Membership and books editor for O, the Oprah Journal.
